I have had several brides and friends make comments to me that they wanted a certain color or a certain flower, but their bridesmaids did not. I always find this amazing – whose wedding is it anyway? While a good opinion from a bridesmaid is great – honey – it is all about you! If you want chocolate brown dresses with white roses – this is your dream day – go for it! Graciously accept the bridesmaids’ opinions and then share with them your vision for your big day. I am sure they will understand after you explain this is what you have been dreaming about! So just remember – it is all about your honey!